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Is it Love?

Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I met this guy from where I worked, and thought to myself “he’s the one.” I have liked him from the first time I saw him. He is a lot younger than I am, and I’m not sure how he really feels about me. We have known each other for about 5 years now. We communicate online constantly, and he comes to visit me when he can. He is currently in North Carolina but will be moving back here soon, or so he says. Am I crazy for loving this guy?

Matt: Proceed with caution, as he may like you and the benefits that may entail, but he might not be serious about you (unless he is moving just to be with you). If he’s really into you, you will know how he feels about you through his words and actions.